Weather Your College Break At Home
Tuesday, December 18th, 2007Tips for Enjoying the Time Off this Holiday Season

Feeling uneasy about going home for a few weeks? You’re not alone.
Many students find it difficult to leave their day-to-day college routine and go back home for the holidays. There may not be any fun stuff to do in town or your college friends may all be in other cities.
Don’t get the wrong idea. We’re not saying that spending time with family is a bad experience, only that it can leave a student feeling homesick from their new home, college. Spending the whole time at the family house can be depressing compared to the exciting, fast-paced, and social college atmosphere.
Catch up with your family first. Tell them all the great things you’ve been doing while at school, then use these tips when you start feeling cramped inside the house:
1. Earn money: Work while you’re home on break. You have a set schedule, you’re out of the house and you earn money doing it. Here are some in-demand places to work:
- Bars, restaurants and caterers
- Bakeries and coffee shops
- Florists, garden centers and Christmas tree farms
- Ski resorts
- Boutiques and chain stores (pretty much all retail)
- Pet-sitting—you can work for yourself or for a business.
2. Volunteer locally or overseas: Why not help others with your spare time? Local and international short-term volunteer opportunities are available. These provide a win-win situation for you and for others in need. Consider these volunteer situations for the holidays:
- Take a spot with an international volunteer organization: participate in a short-term volunteer program outside the U.S.
- Hospital-visit with patients, especially children that are hospital bound for the holidays.
- Nursing home
- Animal shelter
- Mission or homeless shelter
- Meals on Wheels or Toys for Tots are in dire need of volunteers at Christmas
- Ask your church pastor, minister, preacher, rabbi, or priest for any volunteer opps available.
3. Hang out using your spare change: Relax, watch the time pass, and strike up conversations at some low to no-cost venues:

- Public library
- Bookstore (Barnes and Noble, Borders)
- The mall (window shopping only)
- Coffee shop
- Public park
4. Consider alternatives to going “home”: For some students, home is not an inviting place at all for a variety of reasons. Guess what? You’re an adult and can make your own choice about where you’re willing to spend your hard-earned time off. Here are some alternatives:
- Stay on campus and do your own thing.
- Stay with a favorite family relative if you have one—an aunt or grandparent, an independent sibling, a parent that lives outside the home.
- Go home for the holidays with a friend from school if you’ve been invited.
Many stimulants may be part of your everyday diet, and it’s ok to use your normal amount. The problem arises when you use stimulants to stay awake studying for long periods of time. You may have trouble digesting the information you need to absorb. The worst case scenario is that you stay up so long that you finally crash during the test and give a crappy performance. 
Stop stressing. Think positive. Visualize taking the exam while confident and relaxed. KNOW that you have the mental ability to do well. All this is easy to say, but hard to do. If you have trouble, talk to a trusted friend for reassurance. Mothers tend to be pretty good giving you positive feedback when asked.
You’ve got your list of priorities, but limited time. Create a schedule of where you will be located and what you’ll be studying. Be sure to work in some short breaks to stretch your muscles and stay alert.
I know studying for an important test is a great excuse to spend time with that person you find really attractive. 