Killing College Kids Softly
Friday, September 29th, 2006On our site Scholarships Around the US we cover just about any kind of scholarship you can find for any major or student type you can think up. Along the way we’ve noticed how many emphasize academic excellence even before a student hits the college runway.
There’s a curious mix of factors going into the current college admissions brew. And today’s Associated Press story “Ending Admissions Madness†strikes a chord. While the focus of the article is high-achievers like those prepping themselves for an MIT career, nevertheless the all around demand for competitive young academicians, super-charged by the drive of many parents, has kids showing all the signs associated with a host of maladies from depression to fatigue, anxiety and serious self esteem issues.
Our culture is well beyond the generation of parents who did not go to college for the most part and were just happy to have their kids accepted and perform based on the “all we expect is your best†pat on the back. Now, most parents have college degrees themselves and have experienced first hand the competition in the open water of the professional world. Many think their personal reps rest on their laurels as well as those of their college-bound scholars.
And right along with them are college admissions requirements that have continued to up the ante in the unceasing search for the most accomplished kids. And as pointed out in the “Ending Admissions Madness†story, “kids†is the operative term.
…many students in general continue to struggle with high-risk drinking, bring more psychological issues and needs with them to campus and are ’desperately seeking balance’ amidst the busyness of their lives…
So says Alicia Chavez, Dean of Students at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. She has also said that in her career as Dean more and more students are equating any grade less than an “A†with failure, only indicating distressing concepts of students’ personal expectations and lack of flexibility in regards to their academic achievements.
An even more distressing offshoot of this problem is the growing number of women on campus suffering from unexpected and shocking levels of low self-esteem. The problem, according to many is the trend to expect more academically from women. In efforts to correct the decrease in males on campuses, more women are being rejected, an over-correction some say is having dangerous repercussions. Those women that make “the cut†are way above the bar in academics and extracurricular activities and sporting a cartload of personal problems that would curl your hair.
